Acronyms of ABCDEFG of relationship (in BACE)

A--appreciate ,art of respecting ,accept d difference ,there only one like u and that's u
Acknowledge what they have done for u
Arguments will loose person

B--build relationships on d basis of serving krsna not scratching each ones ego ,book reading with ur friend will have everlasting effect (Btswami and RNs ),be little thick and rigid skinned if someone hurt ur ego by taunting u tolerate it

C--careful and attentive chanting very imp if relation with krsna is spoiled then relation with everyone gets spoiled
Communicate on daily weekly basis

D--don't expect appreciation ,expect service ,don't try to impress there will b someone who will never appreciate and impressed by  u ,krsna has made him to keep u humble,don't show off ur friendship by calling him by nick name or pet name in front of others ,don't taunt in front of others ,don't try to change him

E--engage but don't exploit, put ur efforts and still everything fails  try to see hand of krsna
Emotional support is to b given

F--freedom has to b given ,remember he is ur friend not wife,avoid haunting ur friend like ghost,fun shud b based on kc processes like yatra ,drama
Fraternal relationship has to b developed ( taking friend as kid and forgiving his offences like mother)

G--gather together on several occasions like kirtan (dancing together in kirtan is best way to to develop and protect friendships), eating prasad together ,hearing and serving together etc , good investment only gives good returns ,don't expect returns immediately, remember u r not his guru and he is ur disciple

Acronym by Rupesh Gauranga Das 

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